Where Is The Love?
When I sit quietly by myself and people watch, I am always amazed at just how many couples seem to be too comfortable and not happy. I mean too comfortable as in, set in their ways and have the same old boring routine.
It seems to me that majority of mothers only pay attention and give affection to their children and put their partners second. My mum has always said, “Children leave home, partners stay!” So, I think women should give their partners more of their quality time and flirtatious attention…again!
As I watch the parade that goes past daily, I see many women who seem to have let themselves go. Many don’t even try to look pretty for themselves or their partner. They start wearing mens shape clothing, and cutting their hair (I think) way too short…as they say it’s more manageable when they get older. Pffff….please….you’re not old until you are 90-95 years of age these days……and in all honesty, I am sure that heaps of women certainly wouldn’t look like the girls their partners fell in love with!
But….I also notice the men…ohhh dear! I question myself all the time on why so many men that I see go past appear to be so physically unfit, even the young ones these days have protruding tummies…which I suspect is from too much alcohol and junk food! It seems they to have forgotten to keep in shape for their partner. Where is their mental strength? So many of them start acting like another child, they get sulky and let the woman tell them what to do and when to do it……eeewwww…to me that is just wrong!
Now, I admit, I am a stubborn woman and don’t like being told what to do at all, but I certainly won’t treat my partner like a child. To me, that is so degrading….and it dishonours a partners duty to fight for your love and always make sure they keep you interested….I like the feeling I get when my heart flutters and tummy flips….and I always want that feeling, no matter how many years pass.
I’m smiling while I take a minute to feel this……..
Seriously, when was the last time you sat and watched people and saw many married couples holding hands?
Lot’s of little romantic things mean so much to a woman…and your quality time means so much to your man…or partner…whether it be man or woman… love is love!!!…..But where is the love?
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Love is in everything we touch and feel; in all we see and hear..but only if we filter it and take it into the heart. For yes there are so many ways of showing love; but what matters is what truly your heart loves. Men tend to relax more as they grow old(mind state of course, for the heart never grows old), and let themselves be ''pregnant-uh yuck'' and forget to clean their feet or socks. Then they come home and start snoozing off from the alcohol from the bar, or the ''pot'' they took on the way home! That is unbecoming and disrespectful to your wife. I believe marriage comes not only that people want to , but also that they love each other and want to see each others face when they wake up in the morning! So, as men struggle to look physically attractive, women have to stay in touch with how their partners see them. A woman who takes care of herself, and her children always makes the man happy as he knows his home is cropped by a devoted wife. Love and marriage are inseparable; for they are two facets of life that are eternal. Love once; and stick to it. When the mind and thoughts waver; and the heart and soul doubt..that is a red flag. I see many couples bad-mouthing their partners; that is why It is always important that all couples have to speak well of their soul mates and believe in them. That way, not only is the partner happy; but he/she knows that the family is in a positive image from the society.